Regret

Why worry about tomorrow? When today is where we live!

Decision, Our decisions decide our life. Our thought makes those decisions. If you had noticed we always decide the most important things in our life based on other people’s ideas. That is where the problem start, we want to choose the best of all the options we have, so we ask around and become confused to choose the single one, which will work out for us. We lose ourselves in other’s ideas. In our confusion we choose something in a hurry. Now this something will be the biggest regret of our life. This regret almost always ends in blaming someone else for the decisions WE MADE.

Everything we do have options, like selecting a tooth brush to choosing our career to doing some chores at home or work (these can be done now or later). So basically we have to choose something, always in every moment of our life and that is really a lot of confusion for us. So normally the advice is choose what suits you the best. What does suit me best? Let’s see “clothes” for an example when we were kids our mom and dad choose those things for us, then we grew up, we chose something which was trendy and in the latest style. Now, for me I like cargo pants which has long gone out of trend so the best suitable choice is a slim fit jean(which for your information is I do not like). So my question is, should I choose what suits me best or should I choose what I like? Look, I just showed two options to choose for you.

Hmm for me I like to choose what I like but that does not suit me. So I ask around for people who support the decision which I like, then if it does not suit me later I have people to blame. I have regretted almost all the decisions I have made. Decisions I like do not suit me and decisions that suit me the best are not the ones I like. Practically, we live in a world where we are never satisfied. Like a Venn diagram we want to choose what lies in the intersection of what we like and what suits the best, this part exists in very few cases almost never.

Regrets take the most part in our life. We regret almost all the decisions we make.  Very few things go as we plan. We are the losers in most part of our life. So will we stop regretting? I think not. I don’t want to say today’s regret is tomorrow’s happiness, even if it is true. Tomorrow never comes, we do not live in the tomorrow we live in today. I do not want to be happy tomorrow I want to be happy today because that is where I live.

We live in a series of moments. We remember those moments and become happy, today is the moment which you are going to remember later so make it worth, you should be happy when you remember it later. Try and make decisions you do not regret later.

A regret-less life is what all want. Choose wisely because you don’t want to blame someone tomorrow.

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